Do you have these negative money beliefs?
Today, I will talk to you about the 10 most common money beliefs that might wreak havoc in your financials…I encourage you to challenge these limiting beliefs that might be in your subconscious mind without you even being aware of them…
When I was younger, I use to empty my bank account as soon as the pay would come in because I had this belief that there was never enough money. Subconsciously, I was creating the same pattern of not having enough money that came from my childhood. There were often fights around money in my family and moments where our fridge would be almost empty so that scarcity mindset around money was imprinted at a young age in my mind. I had to uncover and destroy the negative beliefs I had around money and plant new positive beliefs with the method I created “Transformation 360” but you can program your mind as soon as you wake up and just before falling asleep by repeating new positive money beliefs.
So here are the most common negative money beliefs:
1. More money, more problems
More money will not create more problems unless you don’t prepare yourself to deal with bigger amounts of money coming into your life. If you are a entrepreneur working from home for example, and you don’t put money away to pay your taxes, than yes, you could run into money problems. But today, you have all the information you need on Internet or from books to learn how to better manage your money as an entrepreneur. So if you earn more money and you are diligent towards learning how to deal with bigger amounts of money, it actually can help you to help others more or to have the lifestyle you’ve been wanting to have.
2. Money is the source of all evil
Money is not evil, people are evil so we have to separate the two because it’s not fair that money is getting a bad reputation because there are some people in the world that are pure evil. What about you that has a beautiful soul and only have good intentions around money? Why punish yourself and deprive yourself of the benefits that more money could bring into your life?
3. Money will make me a bad person
Money will not make you a bad person but it will show whom you truly are. When people are bad and evil, money will just reveal whom they truly are at their core. But you aren’t bad nor evil, so why should you rob yourself out of having more money in your life? You can do plenty of good things with money: get more education, help your family or causes close to your heart, fix things around your home, offer a better life to your children, etc. There are many positive ways in which you can deal with your money.
4. If I ignore my money situation, my money problems will go away
If you hide your head into the sand, your money situation will get worse. I encourage you to check your bank account daily to see what comes in and what goes out. The more familiar you get with your spending habits, the more you’ll be able to correct anything that needs to be corrected. There are so many scams going around these days trying to lure you into getting your credit card information that you have to pay attention each day with what happens to your bank account. A great tip I can give is to never use the same password for more than one app or bank account, as when you get robbed of your password, the scammers will try the same password with all other apps you might use like Paypal for example.
I got scammed a few weeks ago and they almost emptied my bank account in a few days, it really traumatized me, I was lucky enough that I found out in due time in order to repair what was done. Fortunately, I got reimbursed every penny I had lost but this is not guaranteed so be very mindful where you click on a link sent from text messages or emails, as today’s scammers are true professionals into making you believe your are clicking on a safe link!
5. Wanting more money would be selfish of me
Wanting more money is to want to have a better life because we have came into this earth plane to live in abundance not lack. If you would have more money you could be more generous with other people, so how is that selfish? How is that selfish of offering the best life to yourself and to the people you love and care about? Don’t you see that this is just society’s way of trying to keep you small and in lack? Especially when you have worked for your money, you are deserving and worthy of having more money!
I am personally against (personal opinion) of wanting to manifest money with the lotto, nothing wrong with that, but I want you to learn to manifest money by doing what you love. How much fulfilment would you have earning money by expressing your talents and gifts into this world?
6. Money creates problems in relationships
Money doesn’t create problems but negative beliefs around money create problems in relationships as well as not accepting the other views of people around money whom treat money in a different way than you. Some people are very careful with money and like to spend the least possible and others are very easygoing with money and spend money often. If two partners with different views on managing their money get together, this can bring conflicts if there is not respect of the other’s way of dealing with his/her money in the relationship.
Working on your money beliefs will help you remove the stress you have when it comes to money and have a better and more relaxed attitude around money as well!
7. I can’t bring up the topic of money in my relationship
If you are afraid of talking about money with your partner, you will end up frustrated and resentful. Even if a discussion around money can bring conflict, it’s better to pick a fight but work diligently on arriving at an understanding so that both partners feel understood and heard. How can each of you make a compromise to arrive at an understanding that is more acceptable for each one of you?
8. Money is dirty
Money is not dirty, money is used for dirty deeds. Money is a neutral tool, simply energy. What you do with it determines the outcome of how money will be used: for good or for bad. You can do good with money as you can do bad deeds, it’s all in your free will. I know beautiful soul that you would only do good things with money so stop putting this negative label on money so that you get your freedom back when it comes to the way you view money in your life.
Don’t put other people’s negative labels on money, bring back the innocence of the neutral energy that represents money!
9. I should not focus on money, because it’s not spiritual
How is it spiritual to want to help someone financially but not being able to? How is it spiritual that you want to pay for your child’s education but you are not able to? How is it spiritual that you want to have a more comfortable life but you are not able to? How spiritual is that you want to feel safe and secure when it comes to you money but you end up stressing over your money situation?
Money is a tool to help you survive and thrive on this 3D earth plane. You are not living in a spiritual plane where money is not necessary so give money its power back and let it improve your life!
10. I need a man to take care of me financially
You don’t need a man to take care of you because you have your full bodily functions and you have a brain. You are capable of sustaining yourself and you are a powerful manifestor! Letting a man take care of you is like telling him in a indirect way that you are less than him (unless of course you have kids and you decide to be a stay home mom – completely different scenario). Take your power back beautiful future queen and be independent, you were not created to depend on a man!
If there is an understanding between a man and woman to support her while she’s trying to have a business endeavor for herself, that is totally healthy but a woman that thinks she needs a man to supports her while she does nothing with her life, it’s a total loss of talent, gifts and abilities that a women possesses!
To conclude, the better relationship you have with money, the better and healthy your bank account will be, so start working on that relationship towards money if you want money to take care of you! Treat money like it is your best friend and soon money will start treating you likewise! Let today be the day when you decide that money will become your best friend so that it supports you in the future!
Bianca aka Mystical Queen Goddess
Because every deeply wounded woman deserves abundance at all levels!