I want you to imagine a wild tropical forest. In this forest, there are only 5 possible tracks that you can walk on. These 5 tracks have existed for 30 years in this wild forest. They are easy to walk on, there are no debris or branches, they have been walked on so often that there is no obstacle…
Do you have these negative money beliefs?
Today, I will talk to you about the 10 most common money beliefs that might wreak havoc in your financials…I encourage you to challenge these limiting beliefs that might be in your subconscious mind without you even being aware of them…
When I was younger, I use to empty my bank account as soon as the pay would come in because I had this belief that there was never enough money. Subconsciously, I was creating the same pattern of not having enough money that came from my childhood. There were often fights around money in my family and moments where our fridge would be almost empty so that scarcity mindset around money was imprinted at a young age in my mind. I had to uncover and destroy the negative beliefs I had around money and plant new positive beliefs with the method I created “Transformation 360” but you can program your mind as soon as you wake up and just before falling asleep by repeating new positive money beliefs.
So here are the most common negative money beliefs:
1. More money, more problems
More money will not create more problems unless you don’t prepare yourself to deal with bigger amounts of money coming into your life. If you are a entrepreneur working from home for example, and you don’t put money away to pay your taxes, than yes, you could run into money problems. But today, you have all the information you need on Internet or from books to learn how to better manage your money as an entrepreneur. So if you earn more money and you are diligent towards learning how to deal with bigger amounts of money, it actually can help you to help others more or to have the lifestyle you’ve been wanting to have.
2. Money is the source of all evil
Money is not evil, people are evil so we have to separate the two because it’s not fair that money is getting a bad reputation because there are some people in the world that are pure evil. What about you that has a beautiful soul and only have good intentions around money? Why punish yourself and deprive yourself of the benefits that more money could bring into your life?
3. Money will make me a bad person
Money will not make you a bad person but it will show whom you truly are. When people are bad and evil, money will just reveal whom they truly are at their core. But you aren’t bad nor evil, so why should you rob yourself out of having more money in your life? You can do plenty of good things with money: get more education, help your family or causes close to your heart, fix things around your home, offer a better life to your children, etc. There are many positive ways in which you can deal with your money.
4. If I ignore my money situation, my money problems will go away
If you hide your head into the sand, your money situation will get worse. I encourage you to check your bank account daily to see what comes in and what goes out. The more familiar you get with your spending habits, the more you’ll be able to correct anything that needs to be corrected. There are so many scams going around these days trying to lure you into getting your credit card information that you have to pay attention each day with what happens to your bank account. A great tip I can give is to never use the same password for more than one app or bank account, as when you get robbed of your password, the scammers will try the same password with all other apps you might use like Paypal for example.
I got scammed a few weeks ago and they almost emptied my bank account in a few days, it really traumatized me, I was lucky enough that I found out in due time in order to repair what was done. Fortunately, I got reimbursed every penny I had lost but this is not guaranteed so be very mindful where you click on a link sent from text messages or emails, as today’s scammers are true professionals into making you believe your are clicking on a safe link!
5. Wanting more money would be selfish of me
Wanting more money is to want to have a better life because we have came into this earth plane to live in abundance not lack. If you would have more money you could be more generous with other people, so how is that selfish? How is that selfish of offering the best life to yourself and to the people you love and care about? Don’t you see that this is just society’s way of trying to keep you small and in lack? Especially when you have worked for your money, you are deserving and worthy of having more money!
I am personally against (personal opinion) of wanting to manifest money with the lotto, nothing wrong with that, but I want you to learn to manifest money by doing what you love. How much fulfilment would you have earning money by expressing your talents and gifts into this world?
6. Money creates problems in relationships
Money doesn’t create problems but negative beliefs around money create problems in relationships as well as not accepting the other views of people around money whom treat money in a different way than you. Some people are very careful with money and like to spend the least possible and others are very easygoing with money and spend money often. If two partners with different views on managing their money get together, this can bring conflicts if there is not respect of the other’s way of dealing with his/her money in the relationship.
Working on your money beliefs will help you remove the stress you have when it comes to money and have a better and more relaxed attitude around money as well!
7. I can’t bring up the topic of money in my relationship
If you are afraid of talking about money with your partner, you will end up frustrated and resentful. Even if a discussion around money can bring conflict, it’s better to pick a fight but work diligently on arriving at an understanding so that both partners feel understood and heard. How can each of you make a compromise to arrive at an understanding that is more acceptable for each one of you?
8. Money is dirty
Money is not dirty, money is used for dirty deeds. Money is a neutral tool, simply energy. What you do with it determines the outcome of how money will be used: for good or for bad. You can do good with money as you can do bad deeds, it’s all in your free will. I know beautiful soul that you would only do good things with money so stop putting this negative label on money so that you get your freedom back when it comes to the way you view money in your life.
Don’t put other people’s negative labels on money, bring back the innocence of the neutral energy that represents money!
9. I should not focus on money, because it’s not spiritual
How is it spiritual to want to help someone financially but not being able to? How is it spiritual that you want to pay for your child’s education but you are not able to? How is it spiritual that you want to have a more comfortable life but you are not able to? How spiritual is that you want to feel safe and secure when it comes to you money but you end up stressing over your money situation?
Money is a tool to help you survive and thrive on this 3D earth plane. You are not living in a spiritual plane where money is not necessary so give money its power back and let it improve your life!
10. I need a man to take care of me financially
You don’t need a man to take care of you because you have your full bodily functions and you have a brain. You are capable of sustaining yourself and you are a powerful manifestor! Letting a man take care of you is like telling him in a indirect way that you are less than him (unless of course you have kids and you decide to be a stay home mom – completely different scenario). Take your power back beautiful future queen and be independent, you were not created to depend on a man!
If there is an understanding between a man and woman to support her while she’s trying to have a business endeavor for herself, that is totally healthy but a woman that thinks she needs a man to supports her while she does nothing with her life, it’s a total loss of talent, gifts and abilities that a women possesses!
To conclude, the better relationship you have with money, the better and healthy your bank account will be, so start working on that relationship towards money if you want money to take care of you! Treat money like it is your best friend and soon money will start treating you likewise! Let today be the day when you decide that money will become your best friend so that it supports you in the future!
Bianca aka Mystical Queen Goddess
Because every deeply wounded woman deserves abundance at all levels!
Now, you have been given the mission to create new tracks in this wild forest. These new paths to be created are now full of branches, rocks, debris, etc. You have a lot of work on your plate to create these new paths and they need to be created because they will bring you much faster to an exact place in this forest this is ideal for you!
This ideal place is everything you have wished for, there are wild birds, sweet fruit trees, the most beautiful tropical trees and plants, a clear stream of water…it’s a dream tropical spot! These new paths that you have to create are the only ones that will bring you to this paradisiac place!
Now, the brain is wired the same way as this tropical forest. You have wired your brain since your childhood and you are still functioning based on the paths you have created in your brain.
Each day, you are THINKING, FEELING and ACTING based on the paths that have been created on your brain. It’s so easy to walk on these paths because these are the paths that you’ve always walked on…they became habits…habits that are hard to change…
If the neuronal connections (brain neurons that connect with other neurons to create new ways of thinking) that have been wired in your brain are based on the following assumptions (beliefs):
I AM NOT IMPORTANT
I AM NOT VALUABLE
I AM NOT ENOUGH
I AM NOT LOVABLE
MONEY IS SCARCE
MONEY CREATES PROBLEMS
MONEY CORRUPTS PEOPLE
all these paths will bring you to the exact same place in your life: a place where you feel not important, not valued, not enough, not loved, not loving yourself, pushing the energy of money away from you or not managing well your money…
because of these walked-on old brain paths…you continue having the same beliefs, thoughts, emotions and actions…that bring you the same kind of experience…OVER AND OVER AGAIN….until you have had enough…AND YOU DECIDE TO CHANGE! AND THAT DECISION WILL BREAK THE PATTERN!
But if you want to break the pattern without getting to that “I’ve had enough of this situation” point…because you are tired of suffering….you can do that…just continue reading on….
If you want to get to a different spot in your life, then your job is to create new wired paths in your brain. You have to fire new neurons in your brain to create new paths. How do you fire your neurons to create new paths that will bring you to the ideal spot in your life?
One of the best ways to do this is by : REPETITION. With repetition, you will create new patterns of thinking…new beliefs…new emotions…new thoughts and actions…
The ideal time to create these new paths in your brain is as soon as you wake up and just before falling asleep or during meditation, because the brain is in the ideal state (theta or alpha) so that you can reprogram your brain with more ease. When you are active during the day, your brain is not very receptive to suggestions…therefore it is best to do it during these optimal times of the day mentioned earlier…
Choose anything you want to create in your life and make a list in your mind or write a list with the beliefs you need in order to get there. For example, if you want to stop procrastinating in your life, you might choose beliefs like:
I am consistent towards taking steps to reach my goals.
I am motivated to create my dream life.
Each day I wake up fired by my goals.
The universe, guides and angels want me to succeed.
And if you want to make more money, you could choose beliefs like:
I am open to receiving more money
Money is just energy
Money makes my life easier and more peaceful
Money is my best friend and supporter
Let’s say you want to manifest true love in your life, you new beliefs could be:
I am lovable and I love myself more each day
Life reflects back to me the love I have for myself
I am important, enough and valuable
Now let’s get back to the wild tropical forest for a brief moment…
You started working on creating these new paths but there are some big obstacles, like big trees that have been fallen on these paths…. and you need some specials tools…you can not lift these heavy obstacles only with your hands…you need a bigger tool….
The same thing happens when you are trying to create new beliefs, feel new feelings and take different actions…
There will be resistance….resistance that comes from emotional wounds and emotional trauma and your ego…so these need to be dealt with if you don’t want them to turn into sabotaging and procrastinating behaviors…so how do you deal with these obstacles?
The best tool is a journal, it doesn’t cost a thing and you can destroy anything you have written down if you’re not comfortable with keeping these notes.
If you feel that your emotions are heavy (most of them come from your past: emotional trauma and emotional wounds) start journaling them. Write down how you are feeling: sad, depressed, scared, lonely, lost, confused, stuck….
By doing this exercice, you are giving yourself importance and you are practicing self-love. Take a little step each day and love yourself a little bit more each day by journaling your feelings.
Just in this moment when you are reading this article, your ego could try to stop you from taking action on this…saying things like: you can’t do this, you don’t have the time, what’s the point? Be very mindful of how your ego mind always tries to protect you from taking risks or being disappointed…but in the same time keeps you stuck…
The main benefits of these journaling exercises is that you are healing your past, you will get more clarity on what you really need and you’ll access your intuition with more ease and get clarity on the next steps to take. Also, by journaling, other limiting beliefs will come up that you are not even aware of…to counteract these limiting beliefs, create new positive beliefs and create new paths in your brain by doing the 1st mentioned exercice…
Creating these new paths in your brain and releasing your past emotional baggage is the ultimate path to your destiny. You deserve to have all that you need be it : true love, more money and abundance. It all starts with you doing the work. Nobody can do it for you and I can’t do it for you either…the power is in your hands…
You are the only one responsible for your happiness and you have nothing to lose!
Mystical Queen Goddess
How to make money your bestie…
Let’s be honest…you started your relationship with money on the wrong foot…
Maybe in your home, when you were a child, money didn’t want to be your friend, money visited your family rarely, and even created fights in your home…because of the lack of presence of money…
So, you learned to not trust money, to always feel the lack of it, to want it and in the same time to reject it…you did not want to become like those people whom were flaunting their riches and were treating others badly….because of the stories you were told around money….
There was this confusion within you….a part of you felt that you needed more money but in the same time you were conflicted with this ideas that money is bad, money makes people mean and greedy, you can not have too much money, only the privileged people are worthy to have lot of money…money is scarce…etc.
Because of this conflict within you….you learned to just be open to receive enough to just survive and if you had a bit more, you had to spent it because the belief that there is never enough money was lingering in your subconscious mind….
And the secret is that your subconscious mind (negative beliefs around money) is driving your emotions, your thoughts and actions around money…therefore your beliefs were and are still manipulating you like a puppet on strings…
And since money is thriving in a healthy relationship like people are thriving in a healthy relationship….
Money was afraid to get closer to you….because you were afraid of it….
So how do you make money come more freely towards you….how do you make money become your best friend….
You release (full moon ritual or journaling or painting) any bad thoughts and beliefs you have around money….that could be coming from your past, from experiences you had around money….you write down and you release and by doing that….your frequency around money transforms and gets higher…
Higher frequency equals better manifestation power…
Money does not discriminate…money comes where it is welcomed and loved….money loves you back when you love it without judgment and prejudice…
Because money is innocent….money is energy…money is an exchange of energy between people and companies….money just is….
People corrupt money…people are putting their bad vibes and bad intentioned will on money….
Money just is….people are the ones spreading a bad rap around money…
It is not fair to deprive yourself of the freedom that money gives you because people make bad choices around money…
It is not fair to deprive yourself of the abundance that money can offer you because some people are evil people….
You are not evil…you are not selfish…you do not have bad intentions…you are not greedy….
You are generous and have a good heart….you are generous and have good intentions….you are a good-hearted spiritual woman
You have the birth right of abundance in your life….you are worthy of creating, receiving, saving, investing money and take advantage of the power and energy of money in your life…
Do not let society, your parents, your caretakers, mainstream media influence you anymore when it comes to your relationships with money and the truth around money…
Take your freedom back and your birth right and feel worthy of healing your relationship with money now….do the work and take responsibility of improving your relationship with money…
Educate yourself and learn about how to make more money….follow your intuition and your passions to create more money…learn, read and read some more…education is power!
Be open to find and receive money and be blessed….feel worthy of more money in your life…
Money doesn’t own you…you own money….money is not your master….you are the master of money when you know how to influence money and love money because of the opportunities and freedom it can provide you with….money will flow more freely towards you!
What blocks you? What are your limiting beliefs? Are they true or are they limiting you and impeding you from becoming more open to receive it and feeling worthy of more money in your life?
If you start today….you never know where your relationship with money will be in a few months, years….start today and allow time to heal your relationship with money…
Your future-self version will thank you!
When you wake up tomorrow, as soon as you wake up say the following in your head:
I love money and money loves me back
I am taking my power back and improving my relationship with money
Money is simply energy therefore I welcome it into my life
I am worthy of money
I earn and keep money easily in my life
Money loves to bless me…
Money is my best friend and always there when I need it
Money is my best friend
Also during the day, ask yourself empowering questions and stop saying disempowering things around money :
How can I allow more money in my life ?
What is the fastest and easiest way to make more money?
What would be a miraculous situation to welcome more money into my life?
How can I learn more about how to save, earn, invest money so that my life becomes abundant and prosperous?
Keep a high vibe around money and you’ll soon see how money will be more present in your life because YOU LET IT! Let money become your best friend! You have the power over this relationship!
Happy money making beautiful spiritual Queen!
Because every spiritual woman deserves money flowing into her life!
Let me know below what blocks money from coming more abundantly into your life!
Mystical Queen Goddess
How to get unstuck in your life for the spiritual wounded woman!
If you feel stuck in your life right now and you have deep wounds from the past, I want you to know that you can get on the other side of the tunnel. You might not probably see the light at the end of the tunnel right now, but I promise you that that light exists.
It does require some work on your part and for you to know some tools and this is why I am writing this article.
I was once stuck in many areas of my life and I had to do the required work to get unstuck.
1stand most important thing that you need to understand is that you need to work at a deeper level than you might be used to. If you try affirmations here and there, crystals, candles or other spiritual tools but you don’t attend to the real blockages that you have, you will stay stuck. Yes, crystals are wonderful and potent as affirmations are but if your subconscious beliefs and your emotional blockages and ingrained patterns don’t get released and transformed, you will not change your overall frequency. You will stay in a low vibrational frequency that will attract to you more of that you don’t want, lack and unhappiness.
Wanting to use spiritual tools without doing the deep level work on yourself is like putting pink icing and flowers on a dry cake. The icing doesn’t change anything if the cake itself is not good. But when the cake itself is moist, not too sweet, creamy and delicious, the icing can be a very nice touch but won’t change the overall experience of the cake. So my point here is to work on the cake and the icing will only enhance the overall experience!
Now that I have made a point, let’s get back to the serious stuff. You got emotions trapped in your body coming from your past that you didn’t get to express and release. You got limiting beliefs that you bought in your head in order to survive and that today tax you from abundance and happiness. You got ingrained patterns that you act on without even thinking or realizing that they sabotage you.
So how do we transform and release the junk?
Tool number 1: you take the most cheap and ordinary journal or piece of paper (I have no money excuse won’t work here!) and you start writing. You address anything that makes you sad, disappointed, mad, envious, jealous, angry, rejected, etc….The purpose of this exercice is for you to start following the thread that will bring you to your limiting beliefs. Now it’s not the time to analyze or try to understand what you are jotting down on paper because it won’t make any sense to you and it doesn’t have to. These emotions might come from a very long time ago in your life so it’s normal to not understand them. So don’t try to!
What you are actually doing here, is taking responsibility for your life by starting your healing journey and it starts with releasing any thoughts and emotions that come up to the surface. Your rational mind will try to sabotage you so you have to push it away and let yourself express your emotions on paper. You don’t have to write a thesis, stop trying too hard, nobody will see what you are writhing down, you won’t get a mark on your paper! So let yourself loose and free and be gentle and loving to yourself. Pat yourself on the back because you are taking the first step on your healing journey! I am proud of you! And if you reading this article and are thinking that you don’t have time to write, get this: your life will stay the same and you’ll be stuck in a rut! Make a priority of doing the work that will bring you on the other side of the tunnel! When you get your priorities straight, guess what? Time magically appears! Besides, nobody can do the work but you!
Tool number 2: Once you have expressed your thoughts, feelings and emotions, go back and reread everything and start underlying your limiting beliefs because they will inevitably come up.
Today, I felt miserable and lonely. He never called me nor texted me. I waited the whole day for him to give me a sign and nothing….I am so unwanted…I feel so unlovable….being alone feels so lonely….
So as you see above, your limiting beliefs might be: I am unwanted, I am unlovable, etc.
Not that you have identified your limiting beliefs, it’s time to transform and choose more empowering beliefs because you know that your beliefs attract your reality and heavy emotions keep your vibration low. Low vibration equals manifesting more of what you don’t want to manifest!
Now make a table with two columns in write the negative beliefs in the left column and the new positive beliefs in the right column. Example: I am lovable and loved. People find me irresistible. You create your own positive and empowering beliefs, based on what resonates with you the most.
Now remember what I was saying earlier, that affirmations are not enough but there is a twist to my point. What matters when it comes to affirmations, is the timing that you are doing them. If you are doing them randomly during the day, only your conscious mind will be aware of them. But if you do them at specific moments of the day or during meditation when you brain is in theta or alpha waves, your subconscious mind will be able to be reprogramed with the new positive beliefs. Since your subconscious mind drives everything when it comes to your thoughts, emotions and actions, this is the correct way to do your affirmations!
The best timing to do affirmations is: 1) as soon as you wake up in the morning when you are still a little sleepy; 2) when you are almost falling asleep; 3) at the end of your meditation (if you meditate). If you are doing positive affirmations for at least 30 days at these peak moments of the day, you will transform your limiting beliefs and by doing that, your life will start transforming as well.
Your life is a mirror reflection of your beliefs about yourself, the world that surrounds you and of your sense of worth and deservedness. By transforming your mindset, you will transform your life!
Tool number 3: Now that you are more aware of the reasons you were feeling the way you were feeling and the limiting beliefs that were blocking you from manifesting your desired outcomes, you also realize that you are not a victim of the past anymore. That you are not a victim of your circumstances anymore and that today as an adult you can change your life because you don’t depend on anyone anymore like you used to depend on your caretakers as a child. You now have power over your life!
So now it’s time to change your sabotaging behaviors and patterns by again….talking to your subconscious mind. If you want permanent and real change, the key is always to do the work at the subconscious level, meaning that you have to reprogram your subconscious mind.
Only forcing a positive attitude and trying to have positive thoughts and doing affirmations when your brain is not in a state where in can be reprogramed (beta, gamma waves), you will not be able to change anything at the subconscious level. The subconscious mind is responsible of 90% of your thoughts, beliefs, emotions and actions so this is important for you to understand! If the work is not being done at the subconscious level that manipulates you like a puppet on strings, you will be a forever victim of your subconscious mind! But once you understand this important point, you are on your way to transforming your life!
So how do you transform your ingrained patterns that helped you to survive until now but sabotaged you out of getting what you really want and need? You talk to yourself like you would talk to your inner child in these peak moments I was talking about above.
I am now a lovable and worthy person. I can take my rightful place in this world. I can confidently ask for what I want and respect myself at all times. I love and accept myself fully and each day I am becoming a more authentic version of myself. I love myself.
Don’t use negative words or negative form when you are doing affirmations or when you are changing your patterns. Example: I don’t get rejected anymore. I don’t have debt anymore. Instead use: I am lovable and loved. I am creating more financial abundance.
By doing this loving self-talk to that inner child in you that feels like a victim of her circumstances, you reprogram your subconscious mind and by doing so, you will start to behave, to think and to act differently in a more empowered way! By stopping the sabotaging behaviors, you once had, you start attracting to yourself exactly what you want and need!
In conclusion, your present life and circumstances stem from your blocked emotions, your limiting beliefs and your ingrained patterns. Once you act on them at the subconscious level, your life will start mirroring back to you your new frequency and beliefs. You will start being a better version of yourself without forcing anything. You will still use your fun spiritual tools but they will only be the icing on the cake! So have that cake and eat it too! You can have abundance at all levels! If I managed to go from lack to abundance in my life and I was exactly where you are right now, that makes it possible for you as well! But do the work, you are worth it future Queen!
Mystical Queen Goddess
Counseling therapist, spiritual guide and Creator of the Transformation 360 method.
How to repair your relationship with money
Your relationship with money stems mainly from your childhood. Whenever someone talked about money or fights that you had to see in your childhood around money, have all shaped the way you view money.
In my own household when I was a child, there were fights around money which made me believe that there was never enough. The fridge would often be almost empty, but somehow, food would appear on the table when it was time to eat.
Scarcity and lack were the main theme in my own childhood relationship with money. My father had the opportunities and the talent to make a lot of money but somehow, in our house, there is never enough…
When I grew up and started earning money, I managed unconsciously to create the same theme in my life, by spending everything I earned. Since I was comfortable with the idea that there is not enough money, I was creating the same scarcity environment in my adult life.
So, what is your story around money? Did you live in an abundant environment or in a lack and scarcity environment when it came to money? Your past has a big influence on the beliefs you have created for yourself around money, the way you earn money, how you spend money, how you receive and give money, how you invest or save money. You also have a comfortable limit when it comes to money. If you are not comfortable with having a certain amount in your bank account, you will subconsciously behave in a way so that you have less money in your money account even if you have the possibility to have more. To be able to have 2K in your bank account, you have to vibrate at the same frequency as that 2K. The more you raise your money frequency, the more you will be able to sustain money in your life. If your frequency around money is of 500$, you will always manage to spend your money so that you get to that comfortable limit of 500$ and not more.
Also, if you are afraid of letting go of money when you pay your bills (or don’t feel good when you pay your bills) or you don’t allow yourself to buy yourself something you like and you hold on to money because you are afraid it won’t come back to you, you will struggle with money. You have to learn to let money flow, giving and receiving, believing that it will come back to you in any shape or form. Don’t hold on to money like you hold on to dear life, let it circulate and money will come back to you.
Your relationship with money should be like the relationship with a person. I encourage you strongly to consider money as your best friend. If you don’t trust money, if you don’t love money, how do you want money to love you back and support you? It will despise you as much as you despise it (money). Open yourself to the idea that there is more than enough money in the world and there is always enough for you. Let money support you and be your best friend.
There is this generalized idea that money makes people greedy and mean. Actually, it works the other way around: good people do good things with money and greedy and mean people do bad things with money. Money doesn’t change whom you are, it only amplifies whom you are. I do trust that you are a good person so having more money would mean for you that you would be able to improve your life and the life of other people as well, if you wish to.
Take a journal and jot down all your limiting (negative beliefs) that you have around money. Remember events from your childhood around money and write down how it did impact your money mindset. Once you have done that, start challenging them. Are they true? Or are they beliefs that society imposed on you or are these beliefs a result of your childhood upbringing – of your mother and father (or caretakers)’s own beliefs? Is it worth punishing yourself because of other people’s limiting behaviors and beliefs around money? Don’t you deserve to have a good and healthy relationship with money? I believe you do and you can create new positive and empowering beliefs around money. From not having enough, you can start believing that there is more money than you need for you, that you love money and money loves you back, and that the better relationship you establish around money, the more money wilt take care of you.
Do you even dare to look at your bank account or are you putting your head in the sand? You can not improve your relationship with money if you turn the blind eye to it. Make a promise to yourself to look at your bank account and look for ways to raise that money limit. Affirm every morning when you wake up (in your head and while you are still sleepy to reprogram your money mindset) positive affirmations around money like:
I have more money than I need.
I attract money like a magnet.
I am open to new ideas as to ways to increase or multiply my income.
I love money and money loves me and has my back.
Do this healthy money routine each morning and you’ll see how much better you’ll feel around money.
Be mindful and pay attention to any limiting (negative) thoughts that you have in your mind around money and create new empowering and positive beliefs around money and add them to your list. Soon, you would have transformed your mindset around money. Keep being focused and disciplined when it comes to repairing your money mindset and relationship with money.
The more positive mindset you will have around money, the more new and fresh ideas will come to you in order to increase your revenue. It could be finding a new job, changing a job, creating something that you can sell, providing a service online, etc. Stay open to these ideas and apply them. The universe might even send you new opportunities your way because it now reads your new frequency around money! Be open to receive!
I wish you a beautiful, healthy and bountiful relationship with money beautiful soul!
Let me know below if you have any questions around the topic of money mindset.
Mystical Queen Goddess
Counselling therapist, spiritual guide and creator of the Transformation 360 method
Anxiety, understanding and healing anxiety
Warning: in this article, I will not teach you how to cope with anxiety (most of you know how to cope and survive with anxiety) but I will teach how to permanently get rid of it (with practical exercises) in order to find inner lasting peace.
There are many tools, tips and tricks on how to deal with and reduce anxiety but in this article I want to go to the deep root of anxiety and help you get rid of it because if I did, it is available to you as well. If someone tells you that you can not heal anxiety, it’s because they haven’t found themselves a way to do it, so they are spreading the wrong information. I shared a few tools myself on how to reduce and cope with anxiety but this article, I will not touch up on them because I wish to go a bit further.
Anxiety can be debilitating and real difficult to deal with. Let’s demystify it in order to gain clarity and be empowered when it comes to getting rid of anxiety for good. I personally have suffered with anxiety for many years and my only way to deal with it, was to eat my way out of it. I would stuff myself up with food in order to calm myself down and not feel the extreme fear that I would feel in certain situations from being triggered. I can confidently say today that my episodes of anxiety have completely vanished because I had done the required work that I will talk about later in this article.
PART 1 – Where does anxiety come from? Anxiety stems from limiting beliefs that we have believed to be true from early childhood between the age of 1 to 7. Because of things that we went through in early childhood and how they did affect us, we have made up beliefs about ourselves and the world surrounding us, in order to survive with trauma and difficult situations. These limiting (negative) beliefs have stuck with us from that early period and today we are limited by them in our daily live and they are the root of our anxiety.
This is how anxiety in the adulthood arises:
1. There is a trigger, example: your boss at work tells you that you have done a few mistakes in your work and is not very happy about it.
2. The trigger awakens your dormant limiting beliefs that could be the following: you are never enough and that you need to be perfect in order to be valued. Imagine a pool of limiting beliefs that lie dormant and when the triggers comes up (event), any of these limiting beliefs can be coming up to the surface in order to be acknowledged and healed.
Example: after your boss made that comment, you start feeling not enough and not valued and you feel the pressure of having to be perfect at work in order to be valued by your boss. You start being fearful of losing your job, you start panicking because you know you depend on that job and you freak out. Unconsciously you will fear losing your job, of not being able to pay your rent, of losing your home and dying alone and poor in the streets even. Your rational mind can go very far in a downward spiral when it comes to anxiety, you will start seeing the situation in a very negative way and have the impression that you have absolutely NO SOLUTION AND NO CONTROL over your situation.
3. Physical consequences of your anxiety (being triggered in your limiting beliefs. Example: you start having trouble breathing, you tremble, you have the impression that there is no air for you to breath, your heart beats fast, you go into panic mode, you become lightheaded and dizzy.
4. Superficial ways of dealing with your anxiety. You might be able to control your anxiety by smoking, drinking alcohol or eating or talking to a trusted friend or you might go home and still suffer from panic and emotional turmoil and not know how to deal with it. You might even try other superficial ways of shutting down your anxiety but the bottom line is that the ROOT OF YOUR PROBLEM IS STILL IN PLACE. This is where I want you to realize that you need to solve and heal the root of the problem and not be in survival mode all your life while trying to cope with your anxiety only with superficial ways that will not heal your anxiety in the long run.
PART 2 – How to permanently heal anxiety and regain your peace of mind?
Since now you know that behind anxiety, there are limiting beliefs, you become aware that once there is no limiting belief to be triggered, there is no anxiety anymore. When the limiting belief disappears, the trigger becomes irrelevant. When the limiting beliefs stays, any other situation happening in your life will trigger you in your limiting beliefs. So the true solution is to find and transform the limiting beliefs so that when the same or similar event occurs (that we gave as an example earlier), there will be no limiting beliefs to be triggered.
I told you earlier to imagine a pool of limiting beliefs that lie dormant and when the triggers comes up (event), any of these limiting beliefs can be coming up to the surface in order to be acknowledged and healed. Imagine transforming all your limiting beliefs for good. Imagine the same pool with no more limiting beliefs now. Even if there is a trigger (event), there is nothing to come to the surface anymore because every limiting belief has been neutralized and replaced. No limiting beliefs equals no trigger, therefore no more anxiety. If you are serious about applying yourself to heal your anxiety, this is the way to go about it.
So how do we go about doing that?
Step 1 – We journal the heck out of the trigger – some humor is always helpful! When I started doing work on my anxiety a few years ago, I had an erasing board in my room and each time I would come home anxious, I would write down all my emotions and not stop until I would find my limiting beliefs. That was a major stage in my life where I have healed my anxiety. So let’s start equipping you with my method of healing your anxiety as well!
Take a journal and a pen and start asking yourself these following questions:
How did I started feeling anxious, what was the trigger?
Step 2: Start writing down all the emotions that come up for you without judging them. You can make complete sentences or just jotting down how you feel. Example: I feel fearful, alone, abandoned, in distress, anxious, I see no solution.
Step 3: Next question to ask yourself is: what limiting beliefs are coming up for me right now? Start writing them down. Example: I am not enough; there is something wrong with me; I have to be perfect in order to be loved; etc.
Step 4: Let’s transform your limiting beliefs so that next time a similar situation arises, you are not triggered in your anxiety anymore. The more you transform your limiting beliefs the less situations will be triggering for you. And here is my reason of why anxiety might come back even if you had done the work explained here. The only valid reason that anxiety might come back is because there ARE NEW LIMTING BELIEFS THAT ARE COMING UP TO THE SURFACE AND NEED TO BE TRANSFORMED. If you have successfully transformed all your limiting beliefs (it takes time to identify them all), there will be no more triggers for you or very little.
Make a table with two columns in your journal : in the left-side column – identify your limiting beliefs. In the right-side column, create new empowering and positive beliefs. See following image as an example:
Once you have completed the required table of beliefs, it’s time for you to transform them.
There are a few ways to transform your limiting beliefs and I invite you to choose the one that resonates with you the most:
Option 1: as soon as you wake up, visualize your limiting beliefs being destroyed. Now visualize your new empowering and positive beliefs entering your body. Do this exercise for a few mornings until you feel that they stuck with you and you have no doubt that they are true.
Option 2: Do the same exercise as option 1 but do it at the end of your meditation if you do meditate. You can also find meditation on Youtube with no voice on them, and when you feel the more calm and peaceful, you can transform your beliefs as explained above.
Option 3: when you are ready to sleep and you are almost fallen asleep, you can do the same exercise as explained at Option 1.
The three options explained above are situations where your brain can be reprogramed and this is why you have to do this reprograming exercise at a specific time of the day or when you are most relaxed. You brain needs to be in theta or alpha brain waves in order to be reprogramed. Therefore, meditation and when you are feeling asleep are the times when your brain would be in theta and alpha waves so best used for this type of brain reprograming.
You will have to do this exercise multiple times in order to transform all of your limiting beliefs. Each time your anxiety comes up, there is a new opportunity for you to find and transform your limiting beliefs. But the limiting beliefs you have transformed will not be triggered anymore, only the ones that are still uncovered, will come up to the surface for the purpose of healing and transformation.
Best of all, transforming your limiting beliefs will not only have an impact on your anxiety but at many levels in your life. Imagine living all your life in a box because your limiting beliefs are doing just that: limiting you and putting you in a box. Imagine now removing these paralyzing and limiting beliefs and getting out of that small box that you have kept yourself in all your life. Imagine living from an unlimited perspective! A new world will open up to you! Your frequency will get higher and higher; therefore, you will attract to you more abundance at all levels. Moreover, by transforming your limited mindset, you will become empowered and your inner Queen-self will be awakened. Your intuition will become clearer and guide you to your best life! If that doesn’t motivates you to heal your anxiety, I don’t know what will!
So now you have all the tools necessary to heal your anxiety. Feel free to ask me any questions if you have any unanswered questions around healing anxiety and it will be my pleasure to guide you.
Mystical Queen Goddess
Counselling therapist, spiritual guide and creator of the Transformation 360 method.
Because your Inner Queen wants you to experience abundance at all levels!
Are you ready to transform your life? Then read the following! Why is the following important? Because without doing the necessary work to release your emotional blockages, transforming your limiting beliefs and raising your frequency, you will forever stay STUCK and UNHAPPY.
The more you heal and release emotional blockages, the more your energetical frequency rises up and the closer you will get to attracting your true love soulmat, more money, more inner peace and self-confidence.
In a recent FB Live I did, a lady in my group commented that she can not heal because she IS BROKEN , which made me think that other women out there and maybe even yourself might think this to be true about yourself because of your difficult past, that you are BROKEN in some type of way or form and there is no hope for you, which is completely not true!
You are not a lamp, not a wood table, not a glass that can be broken, you are an energetical being and energy can not be destroyed but only transformed .
So if you want to heighten your energetical frequency, here are my top 3 tools you can use to release energetical blockages and limiting beliefs and get much closer to attracting better experiences and more ABUNDANCE in your life.
TOOL NUMBER 1: – Identify a current trigger in your life. It can be a negative belief about yourself (I am broken, I am not enough, Something is wrong with me) or something that someone did to you and pissed you off. Practical exercise: Take a piece of paper and a pen or pencil , and jot down everything that comes up without judging anything what you are writing. Don’t try to analyze or understand and shut down your mental just for a moment and TRUST THAT WHATEVER COMES OUT ON THAT PAPER IS OK. You don’t need to judge it, to analyze it, to understand it, to make it valid or not. Trust yourself because the more you let your mental mind control your emotional mind, the more you will stay energetically blocked and tour energetical frequency will stay the same, therefore manifest the same S?*T IN YOUR LIFE. By writing down anything that you think or feel and expressing everything WITHOUT CENSORING YOURSELF, you will release emotional blockages and also identify current limiting beliefs that you might have underneath the ones that you are already aware of. These limiting beliefs are key for the next tool number 2 that will bring your transformation process further.
TOOL NUMBER 2: – Once you have identified the limiting beliefs in Tool number 1, it is time for you to transform these beliefs ! Practical exercise: Take a piece of paper and draw a table with two columns. In the 1st column to the left, write down your limiting negative beliefs (example: I am not worthy of love, I am not valuable, I am weird), and in the right column, write down new positive beliefs that you want to have (I am worthy of love, I love myself first, I am valuable, I am ok as I am, I accept myself fully). Try to memorize these new positive beliefs and AS SOON AS YOU WAKE UP and WHEN YOU ARE JUST FALLING ASLEEP (BEST TIME TO REPROGRAM YOUR MIND), repeat these beliefs in your head for at least 30 days. Slowly but surely, your unconscious will buy into these new beliefs and your life will start to transform to reflect your NEW POSITIVE BELIEFS. SO WITHIN, SO WITHOUT! So within, so without means that your inner beliefs and thoughts manifest themselves in your outer reality. In order to transform your life , you need to transform yourself internally first! (Personal note: I will tattoo myself this sentence (so within, so without!), this is how much I believe it is true for anybody that wants to learn how to manifest more abundance in their life!). This is an UNIVERSAL TRUTH and when you have understood this, you have made A MAJOR LEAP IN YOUR LIFE!
TOOL NUMBER 3 – Choose your feelings consciously to RAISE YOUR VIBRATION. If you are feeling anger, sadness, frustration, sorrow, grief, resentment, envy, jealousy, these are very low vibrational emotions that will keep you stuck in manifesting difficult situations OVER AND OVER AGAIN. If you feel stuck and unhappy and can’t manage to MANIFEST WHAT YOU REALLY WANT in your life, this is a powerful tool to GET UNSTUCK! Practical exercise: Close your eyes, take three deep breaths, imagine putting all your difficult emotions in a box and giving it away to the universe to transmute it into light and give thanks. Have the intention to heal and feel GRATITUDE for your healing! Your intention is a very powerful tool as well! You will feel instant relief and lighter than before, continue giving your heavy vibrational emotions for transmutation into light, until you feel that there is a empty space for new higher vibrational emotions to fill in that space that you have cleaned out: practice feeling more PEACE, LOVE, GRATITUDE and FAITH that anything you need will show up for you when you need it.
EXTRA TOOL NUMBER 4: MIND YOUR WORDS! Don’t speak negative words or affirmations into existence. Your words are very powerful! Be also aware of contradictions that might come out of your mouth like: I want more money, but I am broke! I want to meet someone that loves me but I am unlovable! It will cancel away all your positive intention because your words are like speaking a new reality into your existence.
If you practice all these 4 tools in the next months seriously, I guarantee this will change your life and you will start attracting better experiences and more abundance in your life, BUT YOU HAVE TO DO THE WORK. Do not stay in a VICTIM MENTALITY and do the necessary work to take yourself outside of your current reality and manifest the best reality for yourself !
Ask me any questions you might have below.
Mystical Queen Goddess
Counselling therapist, spiritual guide and creator of the Transformation 360 method.
Because your Inner Queen wants you to experience abundance at all levels!